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This week, I want to question a number most leaders are happy to see go down: employee turnover. We tend to assume that when good people stay, we're doing something right.

For years, companies have treated employee retention as a sign of organizational health. When turnover drops, we celebrate. When good people stay, we assume they must be reasonably satisfied with their work, their manager, or the company itself.

That's a comfortable conclusion. I'm not sure it's a safe one anymore.

Gallup's 2025 findings show a strange tension in the American workplace. Only 28% of U.S. employees believed it was a good time to find a quality job, down sharply from the highs of a few years ago. Yet more than half of employees were still looking for or watching for another job.

Think about what those two numbers mean together. A lot of people are interested in leaving, but they aren't convinced there's somewhere better to go.

They haven't necessarily chosen to stay. They may simply feel stuck.

Staying isn’t the same as belonging.

That's an important distinction because leaders can look at the same employee and see two completely different things. The person shows up every morning, does good work, attends the meetings, hits the numbers and has been with the company for years. From the outside, that looks like retention.

But none of those things tell you whether that person would choose your company again.

A paycheck can keep someone in a job. A weak labor market can keep someone there even longer. Neither tells you much about whether they care deeply about the work, believe in what they're building, or want to give the organization their best thinking.

We've become very good at measuring whether people leave.

I'm not sure we've become nearly as good at understanding why they stay.

This is where the current job market matters.

When employees believe there are plenty of good jobs available, dissatisfaction tends to show up quickly in turnover. Someone gets frustrated, takes a call from a recruiter, finds something better and leaves. The departure gives leadership a visible signal that something wasn't working.

A tighter job market changes that feedback loop.

The frustrated employee may stay. The manager who would have lost three people two years ago may lose none. Turnover improves, and the organization can mistake the absence of departures for an improvement in the employee experience.

But the underlying problem hasn't necessarily gone anywhere.

Gallup has described a related condition as the "Great Detachment," where employees become increasingly disconnected from their employer while a cooling job market gives them fewer attractive alternatives. Heading into 2025, Gallup warned that this combination could leave unhappy employees feeling stuck rather than committed.

That should make leaders uncomfortable with a retention number by itself. A low turnover rate can mean you've built a great place to work. It can also mean nobody thinks this is a good time to leave.

Those are very different achievements.

Most organizations mark an employee's departure by a date. There's a resignation letter, a final day, an exit interview, and eventually an empty seat. But the more meaningful departure may have happened months before any of those things.

People can leave psychologically while remaining physically present.

You can see it in someone who once challenged an idea and now stays quiet. The employee who used to volunteer for the hard assignment stops raising a hand. Someone who once pushed to make the company better starts doing exactly what the job requires and very little beyond it.

They haven't become a bad employee. In many cases, they're still doing good work.

They've simply stopped investing themselves in the place.

That distinction matters because compliance can look a lot like commitment from a distance. Both people come to work. Both complete assignments. Both may hit their targets.

The difference appears in what they give you that you can't require.

Commitment shows up in the idea nobody asked for. It's the person willing to tell a leader something they may not want to hear because they still care about making the company better. You see it when someone treats a problem as theirs to solve instead of something to work around until five o'clock.

You can't write those things into a job description.

And you can't assume you still have them simply because the employee hasn't resigned.

Most retention conversations begin when someone is thinking about leaving. We conduct stay interviews, review compensation, discuss career paths, train managers to spot flight risks and sometimes make counteroffers after the resignation arrives.

By then, we've missed much of the story. What if the better question isn't, "How do we keep this person?" What if it's, "Why would this person choose us again?" That changes the conversation.

Imagine sitting across from one of your best people and knowing they had five strong job offers in front of them tomorrow. Similar pay. Good companies. Interesting work.

Would they still choose you?

Not because leaving is inconvenient. Not because their benefits are tied to the job or because they're nervous about the economy. Would they choose to keep working for this manager, with these people, on this mission, inside this company?

I think that's a far more useful test of retention. It's also a much harder one.

We've talked before at High Achiever about the difference between engagement and emotional commitment. This is where that distinction becomes especially important.

You can retain someone's labor without retaining their commitment.

A company can make it difficult for people to leave. Compensation can help. Benefits can help. Economic uncertainty certainly helps. None of those things can force someone to care.

Emotional commitment is voluntary.

That's why the current labor market could become dangerous for companies that confuse retention with loyalty. If people stay because they don't see attractive alternatives, leadership gets the benefit of their presence without necessarily having earned their commitment.

For a while, that can look perfectly fine on a dashboard.

Then the market changes.

Good opportunities return. Recruiters start calling. Employees who spent two years watching for the right opening suddenly have choices again.

The organization may describe what happens next as a retention problem.

But the retention problem started long before the resignation letter.

There's another reason leaders shouldn't wait for turnover to tell them something is wrong. Disconnected employees don't become economically neutral simply because they remain on the payroll.

Gallup reported that global employee engagement fell to 20% in 2025, its lowest point since 2020, and estimated that lost productivity from low engagement cost the global economy about $10 trillion.

So the risk isn't limited to who might leave someday. There's a cost to having capable people spend years giving an organization less of themselves than they're capable of giving.

I don't mean people should work longer hours or make their job the center of their identity. That's not commitment. A healthy organization shouldn't require people to sacrifice the rest of their lives to prove they care about their work.

I'm talking about something more basic.

Do people still care enough to bring their judgment to the job? Do they believe their effort can make something better? Are they willing to take responsibility when they could just as easily protect themselves and stay quiet?

When those things disappear, keeping someone on the payroll isn't much of a victory.

It's tempting to look at low engagement and conclude that this is simply what work has become. Employees are more skeptical, managers are stretched, people have different expectations, and work occupies a different place in many people's lives than it once did.

There is some truth in all of that. But it doesn't explain the whole story.

Gallup's best-practice organizations averaged engagement of roughly 70% in 2025, compared with 20% globally. Manager engagement showed an even larger gap, reaching 79% in those high-performing organizations compared with 22% globally.

That tells us widespread detachment isn't unavoidable.

Some organizations are creating places where people still want to contribute.

The question for leaders is what those organizations understand that others don't. I suspect part of the answer is that they don't treat people's continued employment as proof that the relationship is healthy.

They keep earning it.

Take a look at the people you're most relieved haven't left. Maybe it's your best manager, the person who knows the customer better than anyone, or someone whose judgment you depend on more than you probably admit.

Then stop asking whether they're likely to leave. Ask yourself whether they're still choosing to stay.

Look for the things a retention report can't show you. Are they still bringing ideas forward? Do they challenge you when they disagree? Are they trying to make the organization better, or have they learned that doing good enough work and keeping their head down is the smarter choice?

And then ask the harder question.

If you don't know the answer, that's worth paying attention to.

If you suspect the answer is no, don't wait for the labor market to prove you right.

This week's question connects directly to an idea we've explored before on On the Shoulders of Giants: emotional commitment.

An employee can be engaged enough to perform the job and still hold something back. Emotional commitment goes deeper. It's what happens when people care about what they're building and choose to invest more than the minimum required to remain employed.

In Episode #13, Emotional Commitment: The Missing Link Between Leadership and High Performance, I explore why that distinction matters and what leaders do to create an environment where people choose to bring more of themselves to the work.

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If you know a leader who takes comfort in a low turnover number, send them this issue. It may start a conversation worth having before the next resignation does.

At High Achiever, we believe poor leaders hurt people and great leaders change lives. Part of that responsibility is recognizing that employment is a relationship, and a person's continued presence doesn't tell you everything you need to know about the health of that relationship.

The labor market will change again. It always does. When it does, people who have spent the past few years quietly watching for something better may suddenly have choices they don't have today.

The companies that have spent this period earning commitment won't have as much to fear from that change. The companies that mistook a weak job market for employee loyalty may learn a much harder lesson.

Retention tells you who stayed.

Leadership determines who still wants to be there.

Until next week, keep building.

- Jeff Wells

Sources: Gallup, State of the Global Workplace 2025